Oy Men...

I love my husband dearly but sometimes he does oddball things that he has to know are going to drive me mad and make me usually yell at him for not telling me. Like today for instance, I email my husband to tell him that one of the houses we are really looking at buying was taken off of Zillow. I get an email back right away saying he has paid time off and is returning 12/2.  Um, did we not take the bus together this morning into work? Where is he? Did we actually just buy the house and he's over there and I have no idea (which is most likely not the scenario, but however would be a wonderful surprise)? And why wouldn't you tell your wife that maybe you were taking part of the day off?  He likes to do this many times to go to sporting events during the day or out with the guys and not tell me because he thinks it makes me upset. I really could care less if he goes to hang out with his friends whenever. Most of them are married and have kids so anytime they can hang out with him I say is great. Plus he works a lot so he deserves a break sometimes. But seriously tell your wife? I tell him every insignificant stupid thing. I expect to at least know when he's got a day off because not telling your wife is, um a bit shady.  He seems to think if he tells me that I get upset when I really only get upset not being told because dear it looks like you are up to something if you don't. No matter how I explain this, he still doesn't get it...